OUTSMARTING THE FEMALE FAT CELL: DO YOU NEED TO PSYCHOLOGICALLY PREPARE YOURSELF FOR THE OFF PLAN? YOU MUST FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF AND YOUR BODY NOW
You must be prepared to accept your body and learn to like it. If you have "saddlebags that could ride the Pony Express" now, you'll always have some saddlebags. If you are broad-chested now, you'll have a broad chest after weight loss.
If you dislike your body because it is not "perfect," self-starvation is not the answer. A negative body image usually does not improve with weight loss. Many women find that achieving the "ideal" body does not make them happy; they still dislike their thighs, their jobs, and their lives. "Ideal body" and "happy life" are not necessarily synonymous.
What do you like about your body? When I ask my clients this question, nine out of ten say either "absolutely nothing" or "my eyelashes." To help them accept and respect their bodies, I have them analyze each part of their bodies to find something that they like about each part. They are pleasantly surprised to discover that they do like some aspects of their bodies, and they feel better about themselves. Would you like to give this activity a try? Analyze each of the following body parts and search for something you like in each area. For example, you may like the size of your feet, the calf muscles of your legs, or the birthmark on your back. "Nothing" is not an acceptable answer.
Your feet:
Your legs:
Your trunk:
Your arms:
Your hands:
Your head:
By filling out the Do You Need to Psychologically Prepare Yourself for the OFF Plan? questionnaire and becoming more aware of your attitudes, your feelings, and your reasons for weight loss, you have begun to mentally prepare yourself to begin making small, realistic changes. You have begun to give up the "diet mentality" and accept the "lifestyle mentality." If you feel that you need further assistance, get some help from family, friends, or a counselor.
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